Caring For Yourself

Two Hands, One Heart: What My Grandparents Taught Me About Leading

Grandparents Day always catches me somewhere in the middle of a full life, and every year it stops me anyway. I want to tell you about mine, because the lessons they left me are still showing up in how I lead and how I hope you’ll lead too. I had two very different sets of […]

Your Empathy Is Your Edge. Stop Apologizing for It.

I’ve heard it more times than I can count. A woman in a coaching session tells me she’s been passed over for a management position. Or that her ideas was dismissed in a meeting, only to be praised twenty minutes later when a man said the same thing. Sometimes she’s been told, in one form […]

Work-Life Balance Is Not a Perk You Earn. It Is a Decision You Make.

I want to tell you something that took me far too long to understand. Work-life balance is not something that eventually appears on your horizon like a reward for all the sacrifice you have made. It does not arrive on its own. No one hands it to you when you’ve finally proven yourself. You have […]

Sacred Work Deserves Sacred Space

In funeral service, we talk a lot about caring for people. We talk about serving families, supporting communities, and showing up in life’s hardest moments with compassion and professionalism. We should. That is the heart of what we do. But here is the question I keep coming back to: How well are we caring for […]

Nobody Gets There Alone. (And No One Should Have To.)

When my dad died, I was thirty years old. Standing at his visitation, answering a phone call in the flower room while the funeral home filled with people who loved him, I had not one single clue how to run a funeral company. I had zero leadership skills. Zero business knowledge. I had never even […]

The Balancing Act: Women’s Wellbeing in Funeral Service

All Blogs Women are changing the face of funeral service. They’re leading, innovating, and making a difference in this traditionally male-dominated field. But along with progress, many women in funeral service face challenges that are unique and often overwhelming. A recent Gallup study revealed some troubling trends: Over half of working women in the U.S. […]

Embracing Self-Respect as a Woman in Deathcare

As women in the deathcare and funeral service profession, we often find ourselves in the role of guiding and supporting others through some of the most challenging moments of their lives. While our work is deeply fulfilling, it can also be emotionally taxing. That’s why it’s crucial to prioritize our own well-being and self-respect. According […]